anak kos!

setelah lama merencanakan untuk foto bersama, akhirnya para ogeser (para anggota oges =otak geser) "serius" untuk melakukan misi ini. mulai dari sibuk cari baju (perlu diperhatikan disini, bahwa kami tidak mencarinya di Mall untuk dibeli, melainkan sibuk ngacak-ngacak lemari tetangga untuk dipinjam karena kami amat sangat memperhatikan cost of equety yang gw sendiri ngasal nyebutnya enggak ngerti apa artinya, tapi dalam bahasa yang sederhana itu berarti kami sangat enggak modal), cari sepatu, hunting tempat foto yang bagus (dan lagi- lagi , yang murah...-__-"), sampai ribet nentuin mau naik apa kita kesana....
masalah lain muncul ketika Amel si pawang make- up yang hobinya kaya tante- tante belanja baju seminggu sekali enggak bisa dateng bareng dan memutuskan untuk menyusul dengan alasan masih ada kuliah sore, (tapi gw yakin banget itu cuma alesan, dia enggak mau bareng soalnya enggak mau repot ngedandanin oges- oges liar yang jarang mandi).  *notes : Amel selalu mandi 3x sehari pake kembang 7 rupa, makanya badannya enggak pernah bau kambing kaya yang lain*
seminggu ini setiap hari, mereka menyebut perkumpulan enggak penting menjelang foto, yang diadakan di kamar ka Reni (tetua yang tidak bisa diandalkan menjadi tetua, karena otak gesernya sudah stadium akhir) dengan sebutan "rapat", ironis .....___-",
daaaaannnn.....hari ini kami semua memutuskan untuk mencoba baju masing- masing beserta tetek bengek yang akan dipakai pada saat sesi pemotretan ..  ini sudah dibicarakan dalam rapat paripurna yang diselenggarakan di kamar tetua tercinta setiap malam....
emang dasar oges....nyoba baju aje pada rebek yeee... ...*padahal gw galau juga mau pake baju merah pinjeman dari dita apa item..>,<*
susi yang frustasi dengan perutnya, akhirnya memutuskan untuk memakai ikat pinggang yang kekecilan itu dikepala ogesnya.. sungguh sangat memalukan....__-"
ditengah keributan dan hiruk pikuk para oges yang biasanya jadi upik abu, dan kemudian dipaksa menjadi cinderella jadi- jadian, (gw sangat yakin cinderella beneran bakalan nangis sebulan enggak berenti- berenti kalau beliau melihat kelakuan para oges- oges ini yang mengaku menjadi beliau), Mide alias rentenir pulsa sibuk promosi barang dagangannya itu dengan semangat 45 dan jiwa sales yang membara, meskipun ia sadar bahwa para calon pembelinya itu bakalan ngutang!

tapi gw bersyukur punya teman- teman oges kaya mereka...:D mereka itu ibarat keluarga kedua buat gw...;)
selain bisa minjem berbagai barang keperluan rumah tangga kaya piring, gelas dan terutama sendal-sendal nganggur  yang kadang kalo gw balikin suka enggak utuh dan mereka enggak bisa minjem balik barang- barang ke gw karena gw yang paling miskin sama beginian..haha..sabar ya teman- temanku...;* cuph cuph muuuaaah, mereka juga pendengar yang baik lho...;)
okeeh, gw akan memperkenalkan mereka satu- satu menurut versi gw (karena versi awal sudah pernah dibuat oleh Mide alias Rahmi gede)

*susi : penghuni kamar no. 8 tepatnya disebelah gw. cewek maskulin yang hobi paskibra tapi doyan makanin tisu sama nyuci baju. yang paling suka geje diantara kami. paling rajin berangkat kuliah (terbukti selalu berangkat paling pagi..wuiih) tipe cowok idaman : pokoknya abang- abang sexy yang pake seragam dinas ngetat -_- , kesehatan : paling jarang sakit, tapi paling sering galau...haha...(piss usu..:p)
asmara : single dan sepertinya akan segera menjadi double...:)

*ka reni : penghuni kamar no. 14. badanya kecil, imut-imut kaya marmut tapi suaranya membahana suka banget makan ikan lele..keibuan...bahkan udah kaya ibu-ibu beneran haha..;p..gw yakin banget kalo udah jadi ibu ibu beneran ini orang bakal bakal kaya emak gw = BAWEL tipe cowok idaman : abang-abang AKIP
kesehatan : alhamdulillah cuma otaknya aja yang sakit.....asmara : yakin berjodoh...;)  tinggal menunggu undangan saja..hoho

*titi : kamar no. 15. mungkin dia adalah cewek yang paling sholeha yang cita-cita nya kerja di bank syariah, hobinya tidur di kamar ka Reni!!! ga tau kenapa ini bocah enggak pernah betah tidur dikamar sendiri...__-" mungkin orang-orang tidak akan menyangka kalau dia adalah salah satu penderita oges,tetapi setelah berbincang 15 menit dengan dia, anda pasti akan merasa khawatir.....
kesehatan : kurang asupan gizi...*padahal makannya tiap hari daging ayam*, cowok idaman : anak pesantren jelas.. asmara : TAARUF yeey...

Tia : kamar no.7. suka rempong, lelet,  paling sering menjajah gw! >.< sangat suka bersosialisasi, rame, kata anak2 dia itu soulmate gw yang paling sering gw repotin...haha, gw sempet bingung, ini anak doyan banget tidur di lantai...mungkin emang jiwanya kuli kali yaaak....kesehatan : diinjek gajah pun enggak akan kenapa2 kayanyaa....cowok idaman : enggak muluk2, yang penting kaya, ganteng, dan pintar!!! yang bisa bayarin jalan- jalan ke eropa.. ngook ah!... asmara : suram...no comment!

Dita :kebalikannya si tia, ini anak komputer banget, suka autis sendiri sama laptopnya. salah satu yang paling tinggi tingkat kegalauannya diantara kami.  gw baru sadar akhir-akhir ini, kalo ternyata anak ini adalah penyuka BERONDONG!
kesehatan : bermasalah dengan perut.  cowok idaman : borondong mameeen... asmara : berliku- liku...haha aseek dah....

vili : penghuni kamar no.6. cocok banget gantiin ibu2 perpus yang rapi dan galak. seperti kata Mide, kasurnya rapi tanpa kerutan! tidak seperti anak kosan yang lainnya, vili selalu tidur dibawah jam 9, kaya ade gw yang umurnya 4 taun..___-". bangun paling pagi, tinggal bawa pentungan, cocok jadi ibu- ibu galak asrama yang bangunin anak- anak malesnya yang biasa bangun paling pagi jam 7!
kesehatan : Tidur = Sehat!  cowok idaman : abang pilarrrrr...... asmara : malu- malu e'ek kucing...hihi

Amel : penghuni kamar no.16 identik dengan tante- tante metropolis yang hobi belanja dan ke salon...
kesehatan : autis tingkat akut , Cowok idaman : yang penting tajir dan bisa diajak belanja...(gw juga mau! ;p) asmara : ??????!!!!!!&*%^&

Micin : penghuni kamar no. 19 paling manja diantara yang lain...suka sama yang lucu2, tapi gampang di begoin... kalau dia lagi ketawa, tinggalin aja...*lagi melek aja matanya cuma segaris* , kata- kata pamungkasnya adalah "hai Genk" (gw sempat menyimpulkan kata "genk" ini adalah singkatan dari begenk , yang mencerminkan ukuran tubuhnya)
kesehatan : sakit jiwa! cowok idaman : badanya tegap, palanya botak- botak licin,  asmara : lancar kaya jalan tol..

Mide : penghuni kamar no.20 tukang pulsa murah hati (apa mungkin tingkat ke bloonannya sudah sangat menghawatirkan) yang membiarkan para oges membeli pulsa tanpa membayar! boleh dicicil seumur hidup *kata tia*.
kesehatan : sama seperti yang lain...cacat mental! cowok idaman : Wayne Roney. asmara : misterius (meskipun mengaku memiliki pacar, kita belum pernah melihat wujudnya) kenalin napa miii.....

begitulah kehidupan di kosan ini hari ini....
semoga besok tidak ada kebodohan - kebodohan lain yang dibuat oleh mereka ya Allah....amiiin....

smile everywhere you are...;)

smile is a little thing....but have a big power inside...
you can make others happy just by smiling....;) (if you dont believe me, just try!)
Making others happy is one of the best ways to have a beautiful day yourself, right??!!
if you just have an unfriendly face and never put a smile on your face, the people arround you may feel unconfortable to be around you.....
whatever your feeling,or when you are not in a good mood, you have to try at least smiling to them....
smile is one of the most obvious and effective methods of non-verbal communication with others....a smile means that you are glad to meet them...it could means " hi..im happy that you are here"...what a nice world!!!
a smile can easily brighten up everybody's mood...eventhought that they are in a crazy situation....
one example that a smile has its power, if you want to buy something in one store, even though they have exactly what you need or better, i bet that you decide to walk away because the seller doesn’t look welcoming at all...because he/she doesnt want to show his/her friendliness by smiling at you....
smile can change everything!!! and it is simple and easy to do....
so, just try to smile everywhere you are guys.....;)

Religionsfreiheit in Indonesien

Was ist eigentlich Freiheit?  Freiheit ist die situation wo man seine handlungen frei wählen kann, oder einfach gesagt Freiheit ist gleich mit Selbstbestimmung. “ich kann machen was ich will!” es bedeutet Ich fühle mich frei wenn ich von niemandem gezwungen werde.  Wir leben in einem demokratischen Land , es sollte jeder frei wählen können was er möchte, auch  hat jeder die Wahl zu glauben.

Heute ist Religion in der Schule ein kontroverses Thema. Die Jugend von heute moechten nicht Religion in der Schule als Unterrichtsgegenstand haben.  Sie denken dass Religion und Schule  total getrennt sein sollten.  Andernfalls  gibt es auch einige Leute, die sich für Religionsunterricht sehr interessieren.  Aber fuer mich sollte es ein Wahlfach und ohne noten sein (egal welcher Religion) weil nur Gott uns benoten kann. Religionsunterricht sollte von unserem Leben nicht getrennt werden, aber man kann frei waehlen ob man ihn teilnehmen moechte oder nicht. So sollte es in einem Demokratischen Land wie in Indonesien sein.  

           Die Gruende warum ich denke, dass Religion wichtig fuer das Leben in unserem Staat ist, wenn es eine strikte Trennung von Staat und Religion haben würde, wäre es ein laizistischer Staat, was Indonesien nicht ist. Indonesien hat viele Religiositaet, und fuenf offizielle Religion das beweisst dass Indonesien sehr vielseitig ist, deshalb ist es ein bisschen hart alle Bewohner zu vereinheitlichen. Die hauptsache ist, dass die Menschen andere respektvoll behandeln. Grundsätzlich alle Religion sind gleich.

Schulen sind mehr als Unterrichtsplaetze, es sind Lebensräume und Orte der Begegnung, in denen die Jugendlichen viel Zeit verbringen. Daher, muessen auch die Schulen Religionen den Schuelern beibringen, weil in dem Religionsunterricht , gibt es Ethik und manieren die man in seinem Leben braucht. Aber zurueck zur Freiheit, man darf waehlen ob er Religionsunterricht lernen moechte oder nicht, solange kann er  sich gut benehmen.

Don't ever think that you are the most unlucky girl in the earth!!!

have you ever felt that whatever you wish to have, it never happens????
well, dont ever think that you are the most unlucky girl in the world!!!
The great thing about feelings is that you can DECIDE how to feel about anything...

 see this deeply, and think!!!! they are out of school and didn't have any chance to have feasible education!! their parents only care about their sons!!! they just endeavor to keep their boys in school
 Perhaps......
"girls’ education is one of the way to achieving gender equality"
do you think that you are more unlucky????!!!

King Kong Theory..

King Kong Theory....I found this when i was looking for an interesting article to read..
the reason why i interested so much in this article is because this about feminism *and of course about monkey..:p*
Virginie Despantes is the author of this book..
The article says that Virginie is writing from a lower working class, socialized punk, 41 years old experience..
Virginie,this controversial French author make me curious about her critism over glorification of motherhood...
and one more thing that make me impatient to read this book because King Kong Theory itself describes Virginie ideas have been shaped by her experiences of rape, prostitution and working in the porn industry.... whoaaaaaa...this might be an amazing book!!!
can't wait much longer.....i have to get this book soon!!!!! be right back...:p
i'll continue write about this King Kong, when i've got it!!! yubidabiduuuuuuuuuu

am i a bad person for not respecting my dad?!?!?!?

my dad was my big monkey (someone that i've ever respected)
the man who is supposed to protect me,..
angry with me about my score or complained about with whom i used to hang around with,.
the man who made me feel that i wasn't good enough for all the things that i've done, so i tried my best to make him proud...
the man who is supposed to make me believe that i am the most beautiful girl in the world ,and the greatest leader to my siblings...
i thought that you were the best man ever!
i dont know, whats goin on here now, i think time has changed you to be someone that i don't even know...
you don't even wanna ask about my college's life,yeah..maybe that is better because i dont need to try hard anymore to make you proud...you weren't going to show up your care to my brother's birthday...you don't care about my sister's need...the only one that you care about is YOURSELF!
i  begin to hate you, but still loving you as our dad....
i just lost my respect.... sorry...

all about monkeys in me (not important things to share...:p) *sorry*

Sleep disruptions  ..im having trouble getting sleep every night!!!____-"
my crazy brain told me that i should write something . when i opened someone's blog (he was one of my "monkey love" :p), my brain was thinking about "monkey..and monkey.." haha... (i'm not suprise that he  has already had a soulmate..:p)
 well.... monkey love..."a youthful love or first love equivalent to western puppy love"  sounds nice...^^
hihihi,...teenagers love always be sweet right???!!
i have one "monkey" when I was in junior school, two "monkeys" when i was in senior high school..
(sorry guys, i called you "monkey" because monkey  means someone who has ever attracted me and ever be in my mind ^_^..)
i dont need to tell about my first monkey...(honestly, i almost forget about him and my feeling at that time..:p)
my first  year in senior high school, a nice boy with his "emo" hair styled (maybe it was cool, but now it's a yuck! :p) came to me,he was my senior by the way... he was not a big talker..He could be drained but that won't stop him from at least giving a nice massage and asked about my day...^_^ i liked him very much! i thought that was a real love.... but it is not! we broke up and promised to be friends...i know that he still loved his "ex".. but it wasn't a big problem to me...believe me, i could forget him for just about 2 weeks! hoho..
 the 2nd monkey was my classmate...He was funny and knew how to put a smile on my face...:)
i really liked him too!
but like i said at the first,,,they were just my "monkeys"... now.. i need someone who could display his love of affection, regardless of where i am or who i am around at the time..^_^
but monkeys in me will always stay in me...hehehe
i'll never forget you guys!
monkey love = love of crazyness...mildly amusing but not eternal....

B.A.C.K!!!! wew....after did  so many futility because of this genial crapy holiday...:p
i dont wanna let this serenity out of my empty brain....haha....,
finally, i decide to start writing (again)....*then,im sure...i'll get stuck in the middle like usual* grrrrrr __-"
don't worry, it won't happen now...because  i just wanna share one enchanting book that has been read by me..
*cring...cring..cring..*_*
i'm sure that you've heard about a woman named Maryam, (Marie, or Maria but i love to call her "Maryam"..:p) Maryam has become the centre of feminine aspirations within Christianity Jewish and also Islam! Woow...what a wonderful woman! Marek Halter the author of this book " Virgin Mary" tells us about Maryam's life in Jews point of view...this is an intriguing one... almost the same with what the Quran says that our prophet Isa (known as Jesus in Christian),was a child of virgin birth..and Maryam is his mother....(for more info she is the only woman that directly named in Quran ^_^)
i love to tell about this book because  it shows us about the Feminist movement...
and Maryam is a symbol of feminism...^_^