#Menggalau#

The Single Goddess Mantra

I am unique and individual.
I am constantly growing and discovering myself
and the world around me.
I respect myself, as I respect others.
I will only partake in healthy relationships.
I find contentment from within,
whether I am in a relationship or not.
When I do love, I love fully and completely,
and expect nothing but the same in return.

taken from : http://www.singlegoddess.com/


There are some aspects of single life that might,...maybe a woman has ever loved a bad man once or twice in her life to be thankful for the best one...;)
just wait in time.........................

Prostitution around us

i don't know why i really wanted to write about this controversial topic. But it's really interesting to see the differences between one culture to another. Here in Indonesia, there is also prostitution issue. But, you know it's forbidden. Prostitution we see in both sexes but women are in major percentage. In many cases theres maybe someone who force them for this due to economic reasons and many cases found that girls are lured to this profession by employment agencies promising to get good employment...
prostitution is illegal in many countries including ours, but let's see what happened in Netherlands...
i think everybody has known about the place called "Red light District". there you can "rent" a woman for doing some sexual jobs with variety price. Beside prostitution is legal in Netherlands, it has been defined as a form of work.

 i have a friend from holland who told me about this. He said that women who work in this area have to pay tax for this job too. It means that they are concidered have a "normal job" because everyone who works in any  major there, has to pay many taxes. The amount of tax that they have to pay depends on the amount of the income that they earn.

still for me, prostitution is a situation where men give women to an image of being a sexual object, men just want to statisfy their own fantasies through prostitution. I said this because a friend of mine showed me about a site and there were a lot of woman who promoted a great number of capabilities in doing sexual stuff with different prices. how sad they are!! Women have historically been (and maybe still are) victims of both direct and subtle forms of male oppression.
but for me, a kind of women like this choose their life to be a victim. They just show up that they are "weak" everytime! i know...there is nobody who wants to be a "whore" inside. Have a strength inside girls! thats the point!!!...you can be better than just to be whore!! By learning who you are, and discovering who you want to be, you can be YOU!

you don't have to be "strong", because a strong woman ussually won't let anyone get the best of her...but just be a woman of strength that always gives the best of her to everyone..:)

SPIRIT!!! XD

women DON'T envy a PENIS!

 i've just remembered about freudian theory that said women desire a penis....i laughed a little when the first time i read about this...:p but  well he had some reasons why he declared that idea. he said that the girl employs the defence mechanism of displacement to shift the object of her sexual desires from her father to men in general. wooow...it's just sounds like men are the most perfect creatures in the world and worthy to be followed! lol
in fact...women are worthier...:p (sorry guys, but we (women) are better observant and always draw conclusions from every single thing that you guys always ignore...:p) no..no...just kidding..we have the same chances, the same feeling, the same intellegence and of course equal right..:) we just psychally different...
Freud himself admitted that his understanding of women was limited...:p so, you have to understand a woman first before judging them lower guys..
basically, women are not analytical (i said this thing because it happend to me, im not good at analyzing  something) it means that women need men to do this area..(but still you guys need women more than women need you  :p) haha...
Of course, men and women still need each other for much more than some of the practical services that they are finding elsewhere.
I do agree that discussing as well as acting skillfully in the side of the differences between men and women can be difficult...
the point is..for me "womb envy" theory from Karen Horney in which men experience feelings of inferiority because they cannot give birth to children make more sense than "penis envy"
sooo...i think women never envy a penis....:p

kutu....yes, they are! :')

well...i miss them all..three of these "kutu" are my bestie when i was in senior high school...;)
we are absolutely diferent! Chika "a super star wanna be" was my first friend in that weirdo school...haha...
we begin our friendship when the first week of our classes and she smiled at me, so i came to her, held out my hand and introduce myself. She smiled again and stretched her hand out to take mine and a friendship was formed..;) first time i knew her, she was a bit shy and reserved.. but..jreng...jrengg! as time goes by...
she never stop talking about everything, she is an incessant talker....-___- fiuuuuhhhh...
but now..she makes us proud and become stewardess....:')

another crazy mate that i found is Penny...she was also my classmate..she is extremely boyish though, dresses like a guy, talks like a guy,.thats why  sometimes we forget that she's even a girl..:p she was not a big talker, but sometimes she could not be calm...japanese is language that she love the most! i cant imagine when someday she come to us with her harajuku hair-styled and scream in every place..-__-
but i believe she can be a cute nice little teacher for her students...:)

the last is Dina..she was from another class,  she was the most popular girl in school...every boy knew her! she is also crazy about fashion...her big dream is to be a lawyer.. but she was seldom stubborn and bad tempered..be careful if she is in a black mood, she will bite you for sure! hahaha....kidding! :p

there were so many things that i've done with them...and now i miss that moment..:')

Thank God for this precious life..:')

i felt pissed off from my life and something puts me down..i had negative thought all around....
my family was destroyed....i didn't believe in anyone anymore!
i didnt care about all the things that happened...the only things that was on my mind "God was not fair!"
i hated everybody who smiled at me!
i destroyed my life.... i didn't want to do anything... didn't want to study anymore...i didnt know how to live my life... i just wanted to be alone........
but now i realize that life is too short to grumble.... i have to wake up...i have to do something...
thank God, my family back slowly.....;)
my big mistake is never thanked him for all he has given to me without being asked for...really sorry....
when i open my eyes....my friends, my family are always gonna be there for me...
My aim of writing this was to  share and wake up all those who are surrounded with negative thoughts or considers life to be a burden....:)
Andi my bestie...thanks for everything that you did....thanks for giving me your "wings"..hehe
and for my lovely friend Mrs.X, keep spirit! life is too short to grumble honey....;)
Thank God for this precious life....:')

Lots of love and wishes...get ready for the wedding! ;) yeey..selamat buat uni Linda dan ka Anto

 " Love is a symbol of eternity.  It wipes out all sense of time, destroying all memory of a beginning and all fear of an end" 

having someone beside us is the greatest moment ever.... but it is not simple as its sound...more than having someone to hug or to laugh with....but it is about having someone who will always gonna be there for you...


im terribly sorry that im not able to attend your special day....
I wish you both happiness...;)

You have chosen each other above all the rest
May you always fill each others lives with love.
Congratulations!
 

Cheers! ;)

Internet als Zukunft der Zeitung

Information ist wichtig fuer uns. Wir brauchen sie wenn wir auf dieser Welt bleiben. Die Welt hat durch den neuen Technologen stark veraendert, deshalb brauchen wir viele Informationen um unser Leben zu verbessern. Frueher war die Zeitung eine wichtige Dinge, aber heutzutage gibt es doch elektronischen Medien, die wir benutzen koennen um die Information zu bekommen. Also, ich glaube brauchen wir keine Zeitung mehr. Ich habe drei Gruende warum ich das sage.
Die erste ist, die Zeitungen informieren manchmal nicht, sondern sie betreiben Volks-Beeinflussung und Hirnwäsche. Ich lese gern alle informationen im Internet. In dem gibt es viele aktuelle Nachrichten von verschiedenen Autoren, die verschiedene Perspektive haben. Deshalb kann ich nicht von einer Perspektive beeinflusst werden.
Zeitung lesen braucht mindesten eine Stunde oder mehr pro Tag, weil die wichtige Informationen nur sehr wenig sind und es gibt auch viele unwichtige Dinge, deswegen muss man erst Waehlen ob die Informationen wichtig oder nicht sind. Ich personlich habe keine Zeit um die Zeitung zu lesen. Ich muss jeden Tag viele Aufgaben machen, die Lektion vorbereiten, und sogar habe ich keine Zeit fuer die Organisation. Deshalb lese ich gern alles im Internet von meiner Handy. Mehr praktischer als die Zeitung!
Die letze ist, Zeitung benutz viele Papiere von den Bauemen und ich weiss nicht wie viele Wälder, die zerstoert werden. Bäume sind die Lunge der Natur, deshalb soll man mit Papier sparen. Heute gibt es auch “online Zeitung,, die keine Papier benutzen. Mit der Entwicklung der Computertechnik wurde das „papierlose welt” vorausgesagt. Ich glaube in 10 Jahre braucht man keine “traditionelle Zeitung,, mehr.
Mir ist es klar dass Medien fuer uns sehr wichtig ist. Natuerlich brauche ich Medien um die Information zu bekommen . Aber meine Frage “ Wozu brauchen wir noch andere Medien wenn wir das Internet haben?” Oder einfach gesagt mit dem Internet koennen wir die Welt sehen.

para oges dan pasangannya...;)

ka reni, tetua para oges, mengalami gangguan pasca hubungan jangka panjang yang diakibatkan oleh kecemburuan yang tidak beralasan. Akibat tidak mengangkat HP nya yang di telp selama 37 kali, marahlah sang pangeran.....ka reni menjadi tersangka dengan tuduhan mempunyai PIL alias pria idaman lain...ribet emang kalo punya pacar dengan tingkat posesivitas yang kelewat batas...*jadi curhat kan gw..__-* serba salah jadinya....mau bohong salah, nanti kalo ketauan marah- marah....jujurpun bukan pilihan karena pasti diomelin juga....binguung.....padahal ka Reni tidak melakukan tindak kejahatan yang akan mengancam kelangsungan hubungan pasangan yang sudah berjalan selama 4 tahun itu!! dia hanya bersenang- senang dengan para oges yang lain, karena emang oges- oges ini enggak punya kerjaan selain kuliah dan ngegosipin ibu kosan....apa mungkin pacar ka Reni itu ketakutan kalau pacarnya yang sudah cacat mentalnya bermain dengan para cacat mental yang lainnya akan memperburuk kondisi otak dan mentalngya yang sudah rusak itu??? bisa jadi....
lain halnya dengan Micin yang selalu terlihat adem ayem bersama pacar tercintanya, kemana- mana berdua, mau pergi kesana kesini boleh- boleh aja, mau jungkir balik sok mangga bae, mau guling- gulingan di tanah silahkan...mau selingkuh???? boleh....*sambil bawa bom buat ngebom kosan*
beralih ke tante Amel dan pacarnya, bayangkan saja Mami Sela dan Papi Karyo (suami- suami takut istri), begitulah kira- kira hubungan mereka....
meskipun predikat jomblo sudah tidak melekat pada Mide, tapi gw tidak bisa menceritakan kisah cinta si oges ini, karena wujud pasangannya yang abstrak dan kasat mata *enggak pernah keliatan* mau sok- sokan jadi anak muda lagi kaliiiii,... backstreet ceritanya....
berhubung yang udah laku cuma segitu, jadi cerita romantisnya segitu aja.....buat yang jomblo jangan mupeng...coba perbaiki dulu otak kalian yang syaraf nya udah geser parah itu ya nak,  coba di lap ingusnya, jangan males mandinya,biar cepet dapet pacar.....okee???
*gw sebagai yang paling normal disini,memiliki misi dan tugas untuk membimbing para oges yang kadang ileran dan ingusan itu kearah yang baik....SEMANGAT!!!!*