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Friday, 28 January 2011

Don't ever think that you are the most unlucky girl in the earth!!!

have you ever felt that whatever you wish to have, it never happens????
well, dont ever think that you are the most unlucky girl in the world!!!
The great thing about feelings is that you can DECIDE how to feel about anything...
 see this deeply, and think!!!! they are out of school and didn't have any chance to have feasible education!! their parents only care about their sons!!! they just endeavor to keep their boys in school
 Perhaps......
"girls’ education is one of the way to achieving gender equality"
do you think that you are more unlucky????!!!

Saturday, 22 January 2011

King Kong Theory..

King Kong Theory....I found this when i was looking for an interesting article to read..
the reason why i interested so much in this article is because this about feminism *and of course about monkey..:p*
Virginie Despantes is the author of this book..
The article says that Virginie is writing from a lower working class, socialized punk, 41 years old experience..
Virginie,this controversial French author make me curious about her critism over glorification of motherhood...
and one more thing that make me impatient to read this book because King Kong Theory itself describes Virginie ideas have been shaped by her experiences of rape, prostitution and working in the porn industry.... whoaaaaaa...this might be an amazing book!!!
can't wait much longer.....i have to get this book soon!!!!! be right back...:p
i'll continue write about this King Kong, when i've got it!!! yubidabiduuuuuuuuuu

Thursday, 20 January 2011

am i a bad person for not respecting my dad?!?!?!?

my dad was my big monkey (someone that i've ever respected)
the man who is supposed to protect me,..
angry with me about my score or complained about with whom i used to hang around with,.
the man who made me feel that i wasn't good enough for all the things that i've done, so i tried my best to make him proud...
the man who is supposed to make me believe that i am the most beautiful girl in the world ,and the greatest leader to my siblings...
i thought that you were the best man ever!
i dont know, whats goin on here now, i think time has changed you to be someone that i don't even know...
you don't even wanna ask about my college's life,yeah..maybe that is better because i dont need to try hard anymore to make you proud...you weren't going to show up your care to my brother's birthday...you don't care about my sister's need...the only one that you care about is YOURSELF!
i  begin to hate you, but still loving you as our dad....
i just lost my respect.... sorry...

Tuesday, 18 January 2011

all about monkeys in me (not important things to share...:p) *sorry*

Sleep disruptions  ..im having trouble getting sleep every night!!!____-"
my crazy brain told me that i should write something . when i opened someone's blog (he was one of my "monkey love" :p), my brain was thinking about "monkey..and monkey.." haha... (i'm not suprise that he  has already had a soulmate..:p)
 well.... monkey love..."a youthful love or first love equivalent to western puppy love"  sounds nice...^^
hihihi,...teenagers love always be sweet right???!!
i have one "monkey" when I was in junior school, two "monkeys" when i was in senior high school..
(sorry guys, i called you "monkey" because monkey  means someone who has ever attracted me and ever be in my mind ^_^..)
i dont need to tell about my first monkey...(honestly, i almost forget about him and my feeling at that time..:p)
my first  year in senior high school, a nice boy with his "emo" hair styled (maybe it was cool, but now it's a yuck! :p) came to me,he was my senior by the way... he was not a big talker..He could be drained but that won't stop him from at least giving a nice massage and asked about my day...^_^ i liked him very much! i thought that was a real love.... but it is not! we broke up and promised to be friends...i know that he still loved his "ex".. but it wasn't a big problem to me...believe me, i could forget him for just about 2 weeks! hoho..
 the 2nd monkey was my classmate...He was funny and knew how to put a smile on my face...:)
i really liked him too!
but like i said at the first,,,they were just my "monkeys"... now.. i need someone who could display his love of affection, regardless of where i am or who i am around at the time..^_^
but monkeys in me will always stay in me...hehehe
i'll never forget you guys!
monkey love = love of crazyness...mildly amusing but not eternal....

Tuesday, 11 January 2011

B.A.C.K!!!! wew....after did  so many futility because of this genial crapy holiday...:p
i dont wanna let this serenity out of my empty brain....haha....,
finally, i decide to start writing (again)....*then,im sure...i'll get stuck in the middle like usual* grrrrrr __-"
don't worry, it won't happen now...because  i just wanna share one enchanting book that has been read by me..
*cring...cring..cring..*_*
i'm sure that you've heard about a woman named Maryam, (Marie, or Maria but i love to call her "Maryam"..:p) Maryam has become the centre of feminine aspirations within Christianity Jewish and also Islam! Woow...what a wonderful woman! Marek Halter the author of this book " Virgin Mary" tells us about Maryam's life in Jews point of view...this is an intriguing one... almost the same with what the Quran says that our prophet Isa (known as Jesus in Christian),was a child of virgin birth..and Maryam is his mother....(for more info she is the only woman that directly named in Quran ^_^)
i love to tell about this book because  it shows us about the Feminist movement...
and Maryam is a symbol of feminism...^_^

Sunday, 9 January 2011

Hofflichkeit bei uns


Ich finde in indonesien, dass Höflichkeit, Stil und Manieren sehr wichtig sind. man kann auch höflich seine Antipathien ausdrücken. Ich denke, es ist ein Mittel, um das Miteinander zu erleichtern. Das sollte sich auch in der Gestik und Sprache niederschlagen
Hier, haben wir viele Regeln. Die hauptsache ist,man sollte andere Menschen respektieren und respektvoll mit ihnen umgehen, so wie man eben selber behandelt werden will.  
Das sind die beispiel über die höflichkeit bei uns : Der Kopf ist der höchste Körperteil und nach indonesier Auffassung der Sitz der Seele. man darf also niemals den Kopf einer Person berühren, nicht einmal bei kleinen Kindern. Das ist vor allem wichtig fuer Javanischer. Wie in ganz Asien sollten Ausländer auch in indonesien sparsam gestikulieren und leise sprechen. Und Es gilt als despektierlich, mit dem Finger auf eine Person zu deuten.
Ich bin der meinung dass die Leute in Deutschland andere Regeln haben. Zum biespiel man laechelt sich zu und geht weiter oder man kuesst sich auf die Wangen der Frauen beim ersten treffen. Das ist fuer indonesier unhofflich.
Andere Kulture haben andere gewohnheiten. aber für mich ist Höflichkeit relativ.

Friday, 7 January 2011

Feminisme

gw selalu  sangat tertarik sama satu kata ini "feminisme". kata ini "feminisme" ini cewek banget bukan???
sekarang udah ga jaman lagi kita kasak kusuk minta persamaan hak. toh kita udah special kok..:)
contohnya aja udah ada tempat parkir "khusus cewek" dan ga ada tuh tempat parkir "khusus cowok" selain itu, ada beberapa pekerjaan yang emang membutuhkan kita para cewek.
misalnya aja sekertaris...pasti salah satu syarat buat posisi itu adalah "wanita". kenapa ?? karena mereka para cowok sadar, bahwa ada beberapa hal dari kita yang lebih unggul dari mereka...kita dianggap lebih "rapi" dalam mengerjakan sesuatu...
feminisme sendiri lahir karena adanya penindasan, dan penindasan itu berasal dari para cowok...tapi itu jaman dulu...
dulu para cewek emang sering banget jadi objek kekerasan..mereka ga lebih dari sekedar "budak" -nya para cowok...dan hanya "berfungsi" sebagai sarana untuk melahirkan para cowok itu...
sekarang udah beda gals! ga perlu "menuntut" persamaan..toh kita sekarang udah didengerin udah banyak banget aktifis wanita diluaran sana yang sukses....justru malah sikap kita sendiri itulah yang bikin kita jadi keliatan lemah....
misalnya aja di bis umum, pasti kita sebel banget kan ngeliat cowok yang duduk enak-enakan sedangkan kita para cewek mesti bersabar menahan pegal berdiri dua jam sampai ditujuan...rasanya pengen banget  teriak di kuping mereka "hello...gw tuh cewek ya..jadi tolong lo ngalah, dan kasih bangku lo ke gw kalo lo emang cowok sejati!" ini menunjukan kelemahan kita....kalo kita emang bener- bener pengen persamaan itu terwujud...yaudah biarin aja....tunjukin ke mereka, kalo kita juga sanggup kok kalo cuma buat berdiri dua jam bahkan lebih dari dua jam pun kita sanggup!
feminisme anarkis emang agak berlebihan...mereka berpendapat bahwa negara dan kaum pria adalah adalah sumber permasalahan yang harus segera dimusnahkan! woww....
gimana bisa??? manusia sendiri juga tercipta karena ada cewek sama cowok...kalo ga ada cowok, lama- lama manusia dengan sendirinya akan punah dan hancur....
satu hal lagi yang bikin kita spesial.....
sekarang, banyak banget wanita karir yang sukses karirnya, sukses juga ngerawat keluarganya....
hal ini yang ga bisa dilakukan para cowok...mana ada, cowok yang kerja diluar rumah, terus mau juga ngurus rumah....
cuma cewek yang punya kekuatan super!!!

Wednesday, 5 January 2011

Monkey ...Pinky...Monkey...

why do i have to choose monkey as the name of my blog???
well....monkey, everybody know it!
monkeys always have a negative impression (*in my culture :p)..
but did you know????
Their curiosity leads them to try new things....so, they wanna know everything around them! why don't we act like a monkey??? (*but i don't wanna be a monkey that made! :p*)
moreover, they act like us! you can see yourselves in their faces, right?? (once again : YOUR FACE, and not mine! ;p)
in short, monkey create many ideas about how to be a  “human.”..^_^
and about the colour...."Pink" show evertything about the girls! you see, im a girl, so pink is my colour,,,,*_*
besides, pink is about love and being nice..pink provides feelings of caring,approachable and tenderness,..
so, pinky monkey means how to live your life in harmony as a human with another with love ... ___^


 

Ausbildungsystem in Indonesien


( sorry..wenn mein Deutsch nicht gut ist.. :p )
Indonesien besitzt ein Einheitsschulsystem, das man in funf Bereiche einteilen kann:  TK (Kindergarten), SD (Grundschule), SMP (Mittelschule), SMA (Gymnasium) und Universitaet.  Normalerweise von TK bis SMA traegt Man die Uniform.  Aber wenn Man an der Uni studiert, braucht Man keine Uniform.  Heute gibt es hier ein neunjaehrige Schulpflicht, und das ist kostenlos. Aber fuer Lehrbuecher und Uniform muss Man noch bezahlen.  

Schulalltag beginnt hier um 7;00 Uhr, aber die Schueler mussen 15 Minuten frueher kommen. Zum Mittagessen und Beten werden die Schueler  fuer  20 minuten bis anderthalb Stunden in die Pause entlassen. Um 13;00 Uhr folgen eine oder zwei weitere Unterrichtsstunden.  dann um 15;00 ist die Schule geschlossen worden. Hier geht die Schulwoche von Montag bis Freitag. Und am Samstag koennen die schueler außerschulischen aktivitaeten  nachgehen.
Wenn Man in Indonesien an der Uni studieren moechte, muss Man erst  “Ujian Nasional” (Abschlussprüfung) fertig machen. Danach kann Man ueber die weitere Ausbildung entscheiden. Das Hauptstudium an der Universitaet dauert vier bis fuenf Jahre. Das problem ist , dass indonesische Schüler wie ich nicht gern eine falsche Antwort gebe. Deshalb sehen wir  sehr pasiv aus.

Perspektif Sejarah 1965 dan Upaya Penegakan HAM

 
Peristiwa 1965, merupakan sejarah penting bangsa Indonesia yang banyak memakan korban jiwa. Banyaknya versi mengenai kebenaran peristiwa ini, membuat kita sebagai generasi penerus dituntut untuk berpikir kritis. Dengan tidak menyibukan diri dengan mempertanyakan lagi “subjek” atau pelaku peristiwa tetapi berusaha mengambil hikmah dan mengkaji pelajaran moral yang terkandung di dalamnya, serta merubah pola pikir rakyat yang cenderung sudah terbentuk oleh orde baru kearah pola pikir demokrasi dan kebebasan HAM, maka rekonsiliasi nasional akan terwujud.